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Leadership Thought #310 – Experience It Then Let It Go


Most of us walk around with weights and burdens that don’t serve us well in life.  It’s important to learn from your experiences, but once the lesson is learned, let it go.  No one is perfect. In fact, we are all flawed.  It may seem like other people live a charmed life, however I’ve live long enough to fully appreciate that things aren’t always what they seem.  How else can you explain someone as talented, beautiful and wealthy as Whitney Houston ending her life in such a tragic way or someone as successful, funny and famous as Owen Wilson attempting to take his own life?

The reality is that all of will have to deal with the loss of many people close to us.  We will probably have our heart broken at least once.  We will deal with professional and personal disappointments.  Friends will come and go.  We will be vulnerable to certain vices and temptations.  Our well laid plans will get interrupted and altered.  Inevitably life will test our physical, emotional and mental capacities on many occasions.  When this happens, don’t lose heart.  Instead look into your heart for courage and pick yourself up, dust yourself off and seek out love and support as needed.  I know this is easier said than done, but we all must learn to do it if we want build the resilience and fortitude necessary to navigate our life’s journey.

Letting go is a critical part of the journey.  There is nothing you can do to change the past.  Even yesterday is beyond your grasp.  All you can do is live in the present moment and do your best to handle whatever transpires.  It’s important to fully experience your emotions when bad things happen instead of bottling them up.   A repressed emotion will only linger, build up in intensity and eventually manifest itself in an unhealthy way.  Personally, I believe that many severe health issues are in some way related to repressed feelings and unresolved emotional issues.

There isn’t a drug that will protect you from being human and experiencing the full continuum of what this means (nor should there be).   You can’t look to your vices for comfort and healing.  Some of us will have incredible mental toughness whereas others will wilt under the slightest pressure.  I have no explanation for this except to say that life is lived subjectively and we are the sum total of our personal experiences and genetic make-up.    The key is self-awareness and knowing what you can and cannot handle.  When you are overwhelmed please seek help to assist you with dealing with whatever is burdening you and holding you back.  You must acknowledge and confront reality before you can let it go.  And, letting go is required if you want to move on…

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2 Responses

  1. Hey, great post, great thought.

    Thanks.

  2. I call it a statute of limitations.

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